Intj dating tips
But like all things we come out of the hatch with, it can be used defensively. Before we talk about all that, let’s look at The Car Model for the INTJ personality type: The Driver is Perspectives.Perspectives is the process that helps INTJ’s watch their own minds form patterns, get inside the minds of others and allows them to see implications far into the future. Effectiveness makes decisions based on practical application, answering the question “What works,” creating metrics to determine milestones, and closing loops. Authenticity, when done well, is all about “What feels RIGHT.” It’s how we get in touch with how things are impacting us on a subjectively emotional level, and it’s where we create conviction. Sensation, when done well, is how we stay present in the moment, and process the extraordinary amount of sensory detail that is coming at us at all times.You’ll see them peppered throughout universities as professors, in I. and programming departments as developers, engineers, etc.Regardless, most INTJs are not utilizing the full wattage of their problem-solving, think tanking abilities.
This is important to recognize – most INTJs are only satisfied in their career choice.Remember when I said they outclass almost everyone in three very socially recognized forms of intelligence?It can be a source of frustration that not everyone automatically sees the full extent of this, though they are often considered by people who know them to be ‘very smart’.Sure, other types outclass them in intra- and introspective intelligences, and of course kinesthetic/body awareness intelligence.
But most cultures diminish the importance of these styles.
Everything they exhibit is more subtle and muted, and the rabbit’s hole goes very deep.