Good genes dating
Either way, less attractive men are hitting on hot women as hot men stand around wondering where all the hot women have gone.We’ve come to an age where as much as we secretly yearn for big pecks, full hairlines and six-pack abs, we've also started to yearn for something else; something that will comfort us late at night more than big arms and perfect bone structure: security We’ve all been screwed by the Hot Guy, felt insecure around the good-looking guy or experienced the constant anxiety that comes with dating a guy who thinks he’s better than us.
Guys see through their eyes; women see through their ears. D., evolutionary psychologist and author of “The Science Of Romance,” women’s looks are more important to their dating success than a man's. Since we’ve been old enough to date, women have understood that their looks always come before their man's.We’ve felt great taking him out, showing him off to our friends and taking Facebook photos with him.But at dinner, in bed or watching a movie in the darkness, when we saw his phone blinking and his distant stares, we didn’t feel so comforted.We've watched the evolution of our parents' relationships and our favorite celebrity breakups; we've experienced the beginning of our own slow demise.
Women finally came to the insightful conclusion that everyone grows old and ugly, so we may as well find a man who loves us when our junk goes bad, and we can’t remember what we looked like at 25. Women need to hear it, see it and understand that we are appreciated.
The key word here, "consequential," means that women's looks are dependent on their ability to secure a man and a relationship.